We had a vacation coming up, my husband and I. We were not going anywhere special, what with being flat-broke and having a dog, but Sir took the week off from work and the kids were going to be spending a week at their grandparents with three of their cousins. (That makes six in all for that intrepid duo, although I must say grandmaman was more enthusiastic than grandpapa).
Our vacation was threatened right from the outset with Young Knight’s tenacious fever that lasted five days and cut right into the first day of the vacation. When we finally disposed of the kids reluctantly let them go, I quickly caught a cold, which has pretty much settled down to stay for the remainder of our vacation week.
But back when we were optimistic, I had high ambitions about what we were going to accomplish this week, (and yes, that did include dates and exercise with Darling Husband).
Sir had just returned from his trip to the States and was still jet lagged when I pounced on him, waving a piece of paper.
“Okay honey. I have put all my to-do’s on the list. Now why don’t you add yours and we can number them in order of importance.”
He sighs and does as requested.
“Wait a minute,” he says, looking over the list. “How much of these to-do’s are actually for you to do?”
“Well …” I drawled out reluctantly, “I suppose I want to put bark chips in the flower beds, but I don’t have to do that.”
His laugh comes out in a burst, “You mean, this entire list is stuff you want me to do?”
(Blushing) “Well, if you put it like that … But no, I was just anxious about getting some of these things done, but I didn’t say you had to do it. It’s just … how were you going to know what needed to be done around the house?”
Shaking his head and grinning, “There is nothing you can say in your defense.” Then he added sagely, “We’re going to have to keep this list as a souvenir.”
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Some lists are more fun to make and to carry out. I started blogging at the end of 2009, and it was right at the tail-end of all the lists and memes that were circulating around the Internet. I did a few of them and passed them on to other people, but soon lost interest, especially when it involved tagging others, who were very unlikely to continue the meme.
But Elaine at The Miss Elaine-ous Life and Heather at Theta Mom are bringing back the lists, old school style, and in honor of those early days when I didn’t know about twitter or stats, I’m jumping in. Feel free to link up your own post with your answers to the list, and read about the lives of other bloggers here or here.
What were you doing ten years ago?
I was living in Battery Park City, post 9-11, and working in midtown. I was bitter from having suffered some setbacks, namely being unable to get pregnant and my husband unemployed for a year. I was also working really stressful, long hours in human resources with several payrolls involving different visas. And all of that was on top of the work heralded under my actual title and job description (Executive Assistant).
What five things are on your to-do list?
- Work on the chapter for my memoire to be posted on Monday. Writing is like kneading dough. At first it’s a floury mess with a few lumps here and there, but you have to work it and work it until all the flour is scraped up and you have a homogenous dough. As of now, I’m still covered in flour.
- Plant the summer bulbs in the planters I bought, which will be placed in full-sun. Most of our flowers are located in shady spots, so I wanted a few plant varieties that would get full sun.
- Clean my kitchen and the floors. Groan. I hate that!
- Order a new dryer and stress about where the money is going to come from. I’ll be setting up a paypal button on the sidebar so you can fund our extravagant lifestyle of being able to actually dry our clothes in a dryer.
- Maybe try to go out on a date with the love of my life for our last day of vacation if my cold doesn’t wipe me out by 7PM?
What are five snacks you enjoy?
Apples and peanut butter
Cookies, cake, brownies and potato chips and doritos. I’ll just lump those into the things I know I shouldn’t have but really like anyway.
Garlic cheese on crackers
Vegetables and hummous
Toast with almond butter and raspberry jam
Name some things you would do if you were a millionaire.
I would pay off our debts.
I would have our house painted light grey with white trim before the vines cover it and make that impossible. I would have our well painted white and have a new roof put in, and our studio painted white with blue shutters.
I would redo the attic and roof and put a staircase in so we can access it from indoors. Somebody would sleep up there in that cute space, maybe even us!
I would have a gardener come and dig out old trees and weeds and plant raised beds, along with an olive and cherry tree. I would get the outdoor paving fixed and the patio redone, complete with shaded trellis, new furniture and a screen to keep out the wasps.
And then! When our home is in order and I can relax, and there’s something set aside for the children, (and we had enough money for vacation), I would give to those in need. No truly, I would. I love to give when I’m not in the suds myself.
Name some places you have lived.
In addition to Upstate NY where I grew up, Manhattan where I met my husband, and France, where I live now … would you – could you – read my memoire to find out the rest? I tell about all the other countries I’ve lived in, and there is still more to come so I don’t want to give anything away.
Name some bad habits that you have.
I eat emotionally, and it is the bane of my existence, the demise of my waistline.
Other than that, I have no faults.
No just kidding. I’m impatient with certain types of people. I have trouble sticking to the task at hand without fluttering to the next thing. I don’t spend enough time interacting with my children because I’m busy online (or sneaking food). I’m unable to stick to a draconian budget.
Name some jobs you have had.
Lifeguard
ESL Teacher
Director of Sales (in Finance) for Asia
Executive Assistant
Human Resources
Humanitarian Worker
Now it’s your turn. Will you let me know if you link up so I can be sure to read yours too?
Alison says
I love your list! (and lists in general)
I have trouble sticking to tasks as well. As evidenced by my million tabs open on my computer 🙂
Robin | Farewell, Stranger says
Interesting list of jobs! And I love the detail you have planned for your house.
Ameena says
Sorry your vacation isn’t quite what you imagined! There is nothing like a kid getting sick to totally derail your plans. 🙁 Glad you are all on the mend!
Interesting that you were in NYC just a short time ago. I thought you’d been living in France for ages for some reason. Here’s hoping that dryer comes to you soon…
Amber says
We really are a lot alike. I make those lists for my hubby. I’m going to go do this right now…
Kerstin @ Auer Life says
Love your blog. Great to meet new people through the link-up.
Love your plans for the house once you’re a millionaire!
anna whiston-donaldson says
loved to read your lists, my dear. btw, y husand does not enjoy my “house projects” lists either. But how are they to know what needs doing if we don’t write it down?
Leigh Ann says
I’m a stress eater. My waistline is equally upset about that.
Kristi says
I love your list and your blog.
Elaine A. says
I am SO trying toast with almond butter and raspberry jam! And I might make it chocolate almond butter… 😉
Great getting to know you better, thanks for linking up!!!
dusty earth mother says
I love apples and peanut butter. And you.
tracy@sellabitmum says
Oh I love this. And you. And of course you have no faults. xoxo
Jackie says
I totally forgot about apples and peanut butter on my list! It’s one of my favorites… right along with Nutella and graham crackers.
It sounds like you’ve had some interesting jobs!
Jennifer says
I love peanut butter on apples. So yum.
Mad Woman (@MadWomanDiary) says
Can I come work on your house? Not that mine couldn’t use the work but i wouldn’t have my kids in my hair at YOUR house.
Also apples and pb is da bomb.
ladyjennie says
Any time baby! 🙂
Andrea says
I love your list, especially all the things you’d do with your home if you had the cash. Olive and cherry trees, so nice.
SassyModernMom says
Oh I started blogging around the era of the Meme too!! I’m willing to bet we tagged each other at some point of another 🙂 Loved reading this and now am SO hungry. Wish we lived closer so we could indulge in every single one of your snacks together!
Poppy says
As long as dates and exercise included with list accomplishing I say it is a win-win! I hope you stay out past 7 and have something even tastier than Doritos.
ladyjennie says
Yes! That’s right!
patsy says
Funny interchange with your husband! He seems nice, nice enough to find humor in the list you made for him to do!!!! Patsy from HeARTworks
ladyjennie says
Just found you in my spam folder! grr
Susi says
I’ve never tried almond butter but love anything almond flavored – I really need to give it a try. It took me years to like peanut butter, hopefully, almond butter won’t have the same effect! I also cannot stick to one thing and get distracted easily.
Susi says
I’ve never tried almond butter but really think I should give it a try – I love anything almond/almond flavored. I also cannot stick to one thing and get distracted easily, especially online. 🙂
Kimberly says
Nooooo!!! Peanut butter?! Nooooo!! Kidding.
I’m sorry your sick babe. Doesn’t it seem like that always happens to us Moms when we want a little fun.
Mom says
Of course you have no faults! You’re my daughter, aren’t you?
Adrienne says
Loved your lists! Junk food and I have a thing too. It’s terrible. Stopped by from #OSBlog! 🙂